A Christian view
of body shame.
Copyright © 2001, David Blood
All Scripture is from the New Century Version unless otherwise noted.
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Little Peter and Mary are playing in a yard
sprinkler on a hot summer
day. Mom's gone inside to fix a snack when they innocently decide
it would be more fun to play without their wet, sticky, uncomfortable
swimsuits.
When mom comes back out, she about has a heart attack and scolds Peter
and Mary, yelling "Good little boys and girls don't run around without
clothes, its indecent! Bad, bad, BAD! Put your clothes back
on this instant!"
God looked at everything he had made, and it
was very good."
Genesis 1:31
Young John was home watching a movie in which
women were being verbally
assaulted, physically beaten, and killed. His mom was also
watching
the movie, sat, and said nothing, that is, until a woman came on the
screen
bare breasted, and then she immediately shut it off and said, "that's
enough
of that trashy movie.” John said "Wow that's a really weird
message
to send. It's like you said it's ok to abuse, beat, and even kill
women, but don't you dare look at one naked!"
"Why are people important to you? Why do
you take care of human
beings? You made them a little lower than the angels and crowned
them with glory and honor.” Psalm 8:4,5
Elizabeth is a young adult suffering from low
self-esteem, which has
manifested itself in depression and an eating disorder. This is
the
result of the negative and conflicting messages she has received all
her
life about her body. On one hand she has been told that her body
is
indecent and causes males to lust. She has even heard rape
victims
being blamed for rape, because they are good looking. On the
other
hand she feels pressured to measure up to the unattainable image of
super
models and is told if she isn't attractive enough no man will be
interested
in her.
Lord, you have made me happy by what you have
done; I will
sing for joy about what your hands have done. Psalm 92:4
Little Sarah is taught she always has to cover
parts of her body, even
for things like swimming, because those parts are "shameful.”
When
she asks about genitals or were babies come from her parents get very
uncomfortable.
She either gets in trouble, they avoid her questions, or say "polite
people
don't talk about such things.” If her parents ever refer to
genitals
around her they use some euphemism such as "down there" or "Pee Pee"
instead
of the correct terms as they do with nose, mouth, elbow, etc. As
a result, Sarah has learned extreme shame for her body and to not talk
about certain things. One day, an adult her parents know and
trust
sexually abuses her. She feels it is her fault because her body
is
bad, so she does not tell anyone about it.
I praise you because you made me in an amazing
and wonderful way.
What you have done is wonderful. I know this very well.
Psalm
139:14
Paul is addicted to hard-core pornography and is
losing interest in
his wife, she isn’t as exciting as the pornography. Paul got
started
with pornography when he was young and was just curious about what
girls
looked like naked. Pornography was the only way he could find to
fill that curiosity. He started out with "soft" porn, but the too
perfect bodies and seductive poses sexually aroused him and made him
hungry
for more. Therefore, he started looking for something racier
which
led to even more racy and raunchy stuff. Now he is addicted to
hard-core
porn and is finding even it doesn't satisfy anymore. What is he
going
to turn to next that will arouse him?
"Train children how to live right, and when
they are old, they will
not change." Proverbs 22:6
What kinds of messages are Christians teaching or
receiving about the
human body today? In the examples above did Peter and Mary learn
that the bodies God gave them are good, or that they are something bad
and indecent? Did John learn, in the movie he was watching or his
mom's response to it, anything about treating others with honor?
Has Elizabeth learned that her body is a gift from God that she should
be happy and joyful about? Does she understand that it is sin and
not the human body that is the source of evils like lust, rape, and
sexual
abuse? Or that her body alone is not her identity, she has much
more
to be thankful for and share with others? If Sarah had learned
that
her body is good, amazing, wonderful, and something you can talk about,
would she have been more likely to tell someone about the sexual abuse
that happened to her? Interest in the human body is common to all
people, not just young boys like Paul. That interest can
suppressed
but not eliminated. That suppressed interest can later assert
itself
in other ways, one of the least harmful of which is interest in
pornography.
The most effective way to prevent this is to fulfill interest in the
human
body and sex in positive, healthy ways, not suppress it. Was Paul
provided with a right, positive, or healthy way to satisfy his interest
in others bodies if he had to turn to pornography to satisfy his
curiosity?
Was he trained, at a young age, not just that sex is wrong outside of
God's
will, but more importantly what is right, positive, good, and wonderful
about the body or sex?
This article challenges common religious views, in
this country, that
parts of the human body are indecent, and cause people to lust.
Is
this really true, Godly, or Biblical? Historically many accepted
religious views are clearly not God's will or views at all, they come
from
human tradition, often because of satanic influence! Examples of
this can be found in religious wars, the fact that slavery was accepted
and justified for centuries (by many in the church), the idea that we
can
be saved or justified by our good works, that we need a human mediator
between us and God to receive forgiveness, among many others to
numerous
to mention. I have learned that if I start to question something
I need to listen to that inner voice and then check it against the plum
line of God's word and character, not against accepted or currently
established
views. (All of God's word must be interpreted in light of His
character,
which is love; otherwise we will take things out of context. We
need
to study the Bible to get to know God, not to get to know the
Bible!)
The mind goes toward its most dominating
thought. This is why
the Bible tells us to guard our minds and says in Philippians 4:8
"Brothers
and sisters, think about things that are good and worthy of
praise.
Think about the things that are true and honorable and right and pure
and
beautiful and respected." The bodies that God created and gave us
are all of the above. If we think about sex, the human body, and
nudity that way that is more likely how we will react to it.
However
if we think sex, the human body, and nudity are indecent, impure, and
obscene
then that is more likely how we will react to them. This is
exactly
why pastors that have pounded the pulpit against sexual immorality have
been caught in sexual immorality, it is what they where thinking
about!
We can't effectively decrease the lure of immorality, promiscuity, or
pornography
by attempting to stamp them out, outlawing them, or putting emphasis on
what people shouldn't do. While we need to point out dangers, we
must put the emphasis on positive ways of looking at and thinking about
things. We need to tell people about living in Christ. We
need
to tell people the good things they can do that please God and make
life
better.
I hope to show, in this article, that shame (of
the body) plays into
Satan's hand and gives him what he, and not God, desires. This is
not shame over sin; it is shame over God's pure and holy
creation.
As long sin is in the world I do not believe that lust or other sexual
sins will, or can, be eliminated. However I hope I can show that
body shame and repressing non-sexual nudity is unhealthy and makes the
struggle with sexual sin worse, not better. I hope to show that a
better and more Godly way would be to intentionally develop an attitude
of acceptance and wholesome respect for all of the body (which is God's
gift for us), rather then an attitude of shame. I won't do this
just
by using the few scriptures that deal directly with nudity. I
will
primarily use scriptural principles such as the purpose and effect of
God's
law. I will also affirm that God created the body said it was
very
good and never changed his mind! Since God has opened the way for
restoration through Jesus Christ. We also need to look at how God
intended us to live before the fall. Do we just reject the idea
that
we can live without shame for the bodies God gave us, or should we
still
strive to do that as we strive to live out other aspects of our
relationship
with God?
THE
FRUIT OF SHAME
Shame and discomfort of the body says there is
something sinful or indecent
about parts of the body, which God created, and establishes a breeding
ground for impure thoughts. This is not true; there is nothing
sinful
or indecent about the human body. If there was something sinful
or
indecent about the human body, there would have to be something sinful
and indecent about God! In Gen. 1:31 "God looked at everything He
had made, and it was very good." All of the human body is part of
God's good creation. God intended us to be unashamed and have
pure
thoughts. His intention that humanity be naked and unashamed is
shown
quite clearly in Genesis 2:25 by stating that Adam and Eve where naked
and unashamed. If this had been unimportant it would not have
been
mentioned! This is God's intention for us on both a physical and
spiritual level.
Christian's are clear that sin and death would not
exist (at all) if
not for the fall, but they seem to miss the fact that shame and
clothing
exist for the very same reason! We don't teach that other results
of the fall like separation from God, conflict between people, sin,
death,
sickness, fear, greed, envy, selfishness, and hate, etc. are right, and
should control the way we live, when they are so clearly wrong.
Why
then have we been so deceived to teach that shame of the bodies God
gave
us is right and should control the way we live, when it is also a
result
of the fall? Will we continue to justify away this part of how
God
intended us to live because of sin? Will we toss it aside because
it doesn't fit what we been taught to believe, or because it places the
responsibility for lust where it belongs, indwelling sin, not on others
bodies? That makes us too uncomfortable; we don't want to face
that.
Should the way we regard the human body be controlled by sin that
resulted
in the fall or by the Holy Spirit? Would the Holy Spirit lead us
to lust after or reject the body, or accept it as God's good and pure
creation?
We all have a natural and healthy interest about
the human body, what
happens if this natural interest only continues to be suppressed with
no
wholesome, non-sexual ways to fulfill it? Just look at the warped
views, sexual impurity, and crimes of this society for an answer to
that!
True, because of beliefs and upbringing, some people may think parts of
the body are indecent, reject the idea of wholesome, non-sexual, social
nudity, and still keep sex within God's framework of marriage, but will
they have had a harder struggle with impure thoughts then they would if
they had been more comfortable with the body? Moreover, while
they
may have kept the sex act within God's framework, would their
attitudes
about sex and the body have been as positive and pleasing to God as
they
could have been? A God who is good, pure, just, righteous,
compassionate,
loving, and Holy would not create something impure or indecent that we
should be ashamed of, or would (in itself) cause us to sin, would
He?!
If He wouldn't, do we need to change our attitude toward the body and
nakedness?
Is it beneficial or healthy, let alone Godly, for us to consider parts
of the body, that God made, to be indecent or shameful, and the cause
of
impure thoughts?
What we've been taught to believe regarding the
body doesn't come from
God, the Bible, or the Hebrew culture. It comes from a belief
that
was very dominant in the Greek and Roman cultures during the formative
years of the Church. Simply stated part of this belief (called
Gnosticism)
says that all physical matter is evil, only spiritual things are
good.
This heresy creates an alienated, or negative, view of God's
creation.
This is a lie, God created all physical matter so it is very
good.
It is only how we use it (or think about it) that can be evil, not
creation
itself. Two of the lies of this belief (1. Jesus could not
have come in the flesh, since flesh is evil. 2. Only the Spirit
is
of value not the flesh, so we have no sin.) are refuted in 1st
John
and elsewhere in the New Testament. Unfortunately this heresy has
negatively influenced Christian thought toward many "non-spiritual"
things
most especially the human body. I believe that results of this
heresy
can also be seen in the lack of massive Christian involvement with
environmental
concerns. The Lord calls us to be good and faithful stewards of
his
wonderful creation, not exploiters of it. Christians, not "New
Agers",
should be leading the way in living environmentally responsibly and
taking
a stand against those who exploit the earth. (But that's another
topic!)
There is little known and interesting passage not
in the Bible, but
considered by many Bible scholars to be authentic. It was found
in
ancient manuscripts around the early 1900's. (These manuscripts
contain
much of the Gospels and much additional that is Gnostic heresy.
But
this particular passage seems to oppose the Gnostic thinking of
physical
things being evil.) In it, right after Jesus had taught about
being
as little children, the disciples asked when they would know him and He
replied, "When you disrobe without being ashamed and take up your
garments
and place them under your feet, like little children and tread on them,
then you will see the son of the living one, and you will not be
afraid".
I do not know if this passage is authentic to Jesus or not, (I'll leave
that for the experts to fight over, and God to know!) although I am
certain
that it is not essential to the Bible, or God would have insured it was
included. But it does raise an interesting question, which is why
I've included it in this discussion. How can we truly know
ourselves
and others, let alone God, if we are ashamed of how God created us, and
what He created us to be?
Being ashamed of how God created us, and what He
created us to be, shows
that shame is a sin of pride. Only God is purely spirit, we are
not
God and never will be. He created us as physical beings with
spirits,
there is no reason to be ashamed of our physical, created, being,
unless
in our pride, we are saying that it's not good enough, we should be
spirit,
like God. Wanting to be like God is what got Lucifer expelled
from
heaven, and what caused the fall of Adam and Eve. Remember they
were
unashamed of nakedness before they fell for the temptation to be like
God
(Gen. 3:5) and ashamed of it only after they fell for that
temptation.
We are not God, but we are God's creation and his temple!
In the Old Testament there was temple of God built
by man following
God's instruction. Imagine if after building it the Israelites
had
decided that part of it was indecent and they covered it because they
were
ashamed to look at it or have it be seen by others!! Impossible!
Unthinkable! You say, how could any one possibly think part of
God's
temple is indecent!? Yet that is exactly what many have
decided.
The Bible calls our bodies the temple of the Holy Spirit. This
temple
wasn't even made by man; this temple was completely designed, made, and
given to us by God. The Bible says in Psalms 139: 13-14 that we
are
marvelously made, yet some have apparently decided they know better
then
God and have declared parts of us indecently and shamefully made!
BUT
WHAT ABOUT?
There are a couple of passages some use against
nudity, so lets look
at them now. Some Christians point to Lev. 18 and say "The Bible
forbids us from looking at the nakedness of our mother, sister, aunt,
etc.”
This is simply an inaccurate translation caused by some translators
discomfort
in referring directly to sex, and using nakedness as a euphemism.
Biblical and language scholars agree that an accurate translation here
should read that we are forbidden to have sex with our mother, sister,
aunt, etc. Even if this wasn't the case, it is part of the law
and
as such works to fulfill the purpose of the law, which we are no longer
under. (More about the purpose of the law later. Suffice to
say for now that nothing will show a sinful creature it's sinfulness,
quicker
then being told not to do something!)
The same Hebrew word 'ervah' that should be
translated as sex in Lev.
18, is also used in Genesis 9: 20-27. This is the passage where
Ham's
son Canaan was cursed after Ham saw his father Noah drunk and
naked.
(The word naked being used in English translations.) Again the
fact
that the Hebrew word 'ervah' is used here implies something more than
mere
nakedness. Also the fact that while it was Ham that saw and
reported
whatever happened, it was his son Canaan that was cursed after Noah
knew
"what had been done to him" also implies something more. Others
have
gone into some detail on this, but what exactly happened here can only
be speculation for us, except that it was more then simple nakedness.
Many paraphrases or "translations" of 1st
Corinthians 12: 22-25 could
be more challenging to nudity, at first look. Especially in "The
Living Bible" paraphrase. It reads, "And some parts that seem the
weakest and least important are really the most necessary. Yes,
we
are especially glad to have some parts that seem rather odd! And
we carefully protect from the eyes of others those parts that should
not
be seen, while of course the parts that may be seen do not require this
special care. So God has put this body together in such a way
that
extra honor and care are given to those parts that might otherwise seem
less important. This makes for happiness among the parts, so that
parts have the same care for each other that they do for
themselves."
However, if this wording is taken literally (since it is an analogy of
the church, the body of Christ) it would also be saying that there are
members of your Church that you should carefully protect from the eyes
of others, that there are members of your church who should not be
seen!
Certainly you can see how absurd this is, that it could not possibly be
correct!? Then what is meant by this passage?
When commenting on the New International Version
of 1 Cor. 12: 22 in
"The Church in a Pagan Society. Studies in 1st Corinthians"
author David Ewart wrote: "Often those parts of the body which
seem
weaker are most indispensable (v.22). One might think of vital
organs
such as heart, lungs, liver, and kidneys, without which life could not
go on."
Clark's Holy Bible Commentary says, "Verse 22
'Those members... which
seem to be more feeble.' These, and the less honorable and
uncomely
mentioned in the next verses, seem to mean the principle viscera, such
as the heart, lungs, stomach, and intestinal canal. These, when
compared
with the arms and limbs, are comparatively weak; and some of them,
considered
in themselves, uncomely and less honorable; yet these are more
essential
to life then any others. A man may lose an eye by accident, or an
arm or a leg may be amputated, and yet the body live and be vigorous;
but
let the stomach, heart, lungs, or any of the viscera be removed, and
life
becomes necessarily extinct. Hence, these parts are not only
covered,
but the parts in which they are lodged are surrounded, ornamented, and
fortified for there preservation and defense, on the proper performance
of whose functions life so immediately depends."
Strong's Hebrew Greek Dictionary says the Greek
word rendered "uncomely"
in the KJV can mean "shapeless.” The Vine Expository Dictionary
of
New Testament Words, states that "uncomely" means "formless" in the
original
language. Shapeless and formless are adjectives that could much
more
easily be applied to internal organs that are unseen, then to external
organs that can be seen.
In light of this perspective, the last part of
verse 24 holds a key
to a better understanding of these verses. "So God has put this
body
together in such a way that extra honor and care are given to those
parts
that might otherwise seem less important.” God is the one who has
already done it! Clark writes in his commentary that "these parts
(that is, the less honorably regarded internal organs) are not only
covered
(with skin by God), but the parts in which they are lodged (this same
skin
and adjacent tissue) are surrounded, ornamented, and fortified for
their
preservation and defense.” Note that this commentator discusses
physical
protection here - not physical concealment. There's a big
difference!
One that could easily be seen in a literal interpretation.
Instead
of it meaning that we are to carefully conceal certain members of the
church
(who should not be seen) from the eyes of others, it means that we are
to protect, pray for, and support members of our church! Doesn't
this make a lot more since?! And wouldn't it include church
leadership,
or those who may be in the background and not often recognized, but
without
whom the church could not function?
Some will say "But what about sin?" "It is
because of sin (which
didn't exist when Adam and Eve were naked) that we can't go
naked."
Yes, it is true that we struggle with sin but, as we shall see, trying
to shift the responsibility of our sinful thoughts onto God's creation,
which He pronounced "very good" (Gen. 1:31) only makes the problem
worse.
Society's insistence on covering our sexual parts only serves to draw
more,
not less, attention to them and their sexual functions then if nudity
was
accepted in non-sexual settings. (We will take a closer look at
Adam
and Eve later.) Although all of creation is bruised and suffering
because of the fall, the core or essential purity and goodness of God's
creation has not diminished. Parts of the human body did not
become
indecent at the fall; sex as well did not become sinful at the
fall.
The Body and sex are still God's pure and good creation, part of His
masterpiece,
and gift to us. Neither are sinful, it is the abuse and
exploitation
as well as the maligning and aspersion of both that is sinful.
Seeing
someone naked doesn't cause sin. Not seeing someone naked doesn't
prevent or stop sin. Our fallen, sinful nature causes sin.
THE
EFFECT OF THE LAW
The fact is forbidding nakedness can actually
increase sin! Why?
Because our sinful nature makes things that are forbidden more tempting
then those things that are not. When we forbid nakedness, because
we think it promotes impure thoughts, we actually end up struggling
with
impure thoughts more than if nakedness was seen as no big deal and
simply
accepted. Many cultures used to live naked until Christian
missionaries
(whom I'm sure had the very best of intentions) came along and put
clothes
on them. After they started wearing clothes and were told that
nakedness
was sinful, sexual immorality didn't decrease it increased! Why
did
this happen? Rom 5:20 explains it. It says that "The law
came
to make sin worse." We forget that nakedness does not cause
impure
thoughts, sin does, and we (like the religious people that Jesus
confronted)
add fuel to the fire and make sin even worse with laws that God never
intended
us to be under!
Laws can control outward actions (when they are
known to be enforced),
this is very important if society is to function. But they do not
control the heart. Let's put this to a test. Follow my
instructions
very carefully. Do not look at your right hand. Now I'm
telling
you, no matter what you do, do not look at your right hand.
That's
right I said do not look at your right hand. You are absolutely
forbidden
to look at it. You are forbidden to even think about looking at
it!
Now how does that effect you? Aren't you just itching to look at
your right hand? Did you look at it? Did you want
too?
Did you think, "Who is he to tell me what to do?!" Fifteen
seconds
ago the last thing in the world you were thinking about or interested
in
doing was looking at your right hand! But once my "law" came in,
and I told you not to look at it, didn't it "arouse the sinful
passions"
in your flesh to make you want to do the very thing, I told you not to
do? Didn't it at the very least make you conscience of your right
hand, when you hadn't been thinking of it before? This may seem
like
a very silly little test, but I think it's important because it can
show
the power of the law to increase sin. Why does the law do
this?
Why does the law make sin worse? Because that is what it was
designed
to do! It is a tutor or mirror, teaching and showing us that
there
is nothing good in ourselves and leading us to Christ, the only place
we
can find true goodness. A mirror like the law can not clean us
up,
all it can do is show us that we are dirty and need to be cleaned, in
the
case of sin only Jesus can clean us, nothing else!
Paul talks about this in Roman's 7, when he says
that he would not have
known what it was or had the desire to covet if the law had not said
"do
not covet". The law was not designed to help make us right with
God;
it was designed to show us that due to our fallen, imperfect nature, we
can never by our efforts be made right with God. It is only when
we accept, by faith, the wonderful gift of grace and life in Jesus
(that
God freely gives) that we can be made right with Him. When will
we
learn that those who do believe in Jesus and have accepted His gift
have
been freed from the law of sin and death and really believe
it?!
(Being freed from the law also means being freed from the power of sin.
See 1st Cor. 15:56, Rom. 6:14 & 7:1-6, Gal. 3:1-3) I think it
happens only when we are at the end of ourselves and willing to let go
of our pride. We want to be self-sufficient. We want to be
good by ourselves, be righteous by ourselves, and be pure by
ourselves.
Well I have news, we aren't! It is only by Gods grace and
allowing
Christ Jesus to live through us that we can be. Not only is the
law
powerless in helping us control our flesh, it stirs it up! It is
only as we let Christ live in us that sin loses its flavor, and it is
only
by walking in the spirit that we won't fulfill the desires of the
flesh.
Gods law is quite able to do its job. The
Bible warns of adding
to Gods law. Religious leaders in Jesus's time had erected many
laws
around the Sabbath, to ensure that people kept it holy. Jesus
repeatedly
defied these man made laws and showed that those who kept the letter of
those laws where guilty of breaking the spirit of Gods law. He
showed
that while these laws may have made people look righteous on the
outside,
they where full of filth and corruption on the inside.
Today there are church and civil laws against
nudity that where not
established by God. These laws were intended to keep us from
lusting.
Are they effective? Clearly not! I've been to church camps
where, (instead of swimming nude) both males and females had to wear
t-shirts
over swimsuits! Did this decrease the interest in sex and the
body?
NO, it increased it greatly! It was absolutely counterproductive
in keeping the kids minds off the bodies of the opposite sex, it made
them
more interested. Away from camp staff, sex was about all the kids
talked about! It also made it so that the only way those kids
could
satisfy that interest was sexual. I've been to nudist camps where
there was far, far less sexual talk and/or activity among kids then at
church camps. Why? Because at the nudist camp the body is
simply
accepted as good and natural, therefore much interest in it can be
satisfied
naturally and non-sexually.
Many on both sides of the issue of homosexuality
probably won't like
this, but think about it... Is it just coincidence that now that
there are far less opportunities for even same sex, non-sexual, nudity
among youth than there used to be (i.e. group gym showers in schools
that
are hardly used anymore, nude swimming at YMCA pools, Scout camps, and
even many schools, etc.) that there is also far more acceptance and
awareness
of homosexuality now? Or that even same sex nudity now has sexual
connotations, when it didn't used to?! Which came first, the
decrease
of opportunities for same sex, casual, non-sexual nudity or the broad
awareness,
acceptance, advocacy and open promotion of homosexuality? I think
you'll find that the decrease for opportunities of same sex, casual,
non-sexual
nudity started in the 1950's & 60's, increased dramatically in the
70's to the present, while there wasn't real broad, casual, awareness,
acceptance, and open promotion of homosexuality until the 1980's &
90's! It may just be coincidence but I find it to be a very
interesting
one. Since many youth now say they don't want to shower after gym
class because gays may be "checking them out" (I never heard that when
I was in school) it strongly implies that the repression of non-sexual
nudity directly increases the sexual connotations of nudity.
Does this imply that if nudity was widely accepted
that we would loose
interest in sex? By no means the sexual urge God gave us is very
strong and healthy. He instructed Adam and Eve to be fruitful and
multiply before sin and shame destroyed paradise. What I do
believe
is that if nudity was widely accepted many more people (especially
teens)
would be less obsessed with sex. Although the influence of sin
will
still be in the world until the Lords return, I do believe that if
non-sexual
nudity was widely accepted peoples sexual behavior would naturally be
(not
perfect, but) somewhat more in line with Gods intention for it.
Why
do I believe this? Simply because repression creates
obsession.
There would be an accepted non-sexual way for people to fulfill their
natural
interest in, and be comfortable with other peoples nude bodies. I
saw a report on the news recently that said people in the U.S. have
more
sexual partners than any other industrial nation. This wasn't
really
surprising to me, Europe as a whole is more relaxed about sex, and
nudity
while the U.S. is obsessed with them. Being comfortable with,
positive
about, and more relaxed (or accepting) about sex does not equate to
more
sexual immorality.
WE
HAVE BEEN DECEIVED
Children are not born ashamed of their
bodies. Instead, if given
a chance, very young children take great delight in being free of
clothes.
Sadly, over time, we fall for Satan's deception and become ashamed of
our
bodies. This shame makes parts of God's creation seem indecent or
obscene when we should just be able to accept them just as easily as we
do a forehead, elbow, or nose. Body shame focuses our attention
on
the genitals and their functions, because (referring again to Roman's
7:1-11)
its our sinful human nature to want to see what we're told we shouldn't
see, and to want to do things we're told we shouldn't do. If
interest
in the human body can't be filled in a healthy non-sexual environment
it
is very likely that it could be perverted in unhealthy ways such as
voyeurism,
pornography, and sexual promiscuity. Such results can be clearly
seen this culture.
If the most accessible way for a child to fulfill
the natural interest
in what naked bodies look like (which like other things isn't satisfied
with just one answer or, in this case, look) is through pornography
they
will (and they do) look at pornography. The problem of course is
that pornography doesn't give a realistic picture of what normal bodies
look like; it is exploitive and sexual in nature, stimulating impure
sexual
fantasies in adults and children. And since it is often the most
accessible way to see the naked human body, it also reinforces the
association
of nudity and sex. Pavlov would be proud! But I ask, is
God?
And is pornography what you want to be the most accessible way for your
child/children to fulfill their interest in what naked bodies look
like?
It has been shown time and again that children who grow up in nudist
homes
have very little to no interest in pornography plus a much more
balanced
and healthy outlook on the body and sex then children who where raised
in homes were non-sexual nudity wasn't accepted and common.
Many Christians don't think social nudity could in
any way be Godly.
But I have to ask, what is Godly about being ashamed of the bodies God
has given us? What is Godly about calling parts of the body that
God made indecent?! Should Christians be ashamed of nakedness, or
should we be ashamed of being ashamed of nakedness?! Body
acceptance
and nudity has been shown to contribute to sexual morality. A
study
done in 1969 showed greater sexual satisfaction in marriage and
stronger
marriages, among nudists then the average population. Another
work
on childhood nakedness and its effect on sexual morality shows how
childhood
nakedness is beneficial with self acceptance and sexual identity. It
also
shows how childhood nakedness can decrease problems with homosexuality,
pornography, voyeurism, exhibitionism, pedophilia, sexual molestation,
rape, incest, and sexual promiscuity. I remember a proud nudist
parent
saying that she was told by their son's teacher that he was the only
boy
in the Elementary school that could be trusted to be a hall monitor by
the girls restroom, he was the only one that didn't try to peak!
Divorce rates among nudists are also lower then in most church
dominations.
People who have positive, Godly attitudes toward
the body and sex are
more likely to honor and enjoy God's purpose for sex then those that
have
negative, sinful, and obsessive attitudes. People are marrying at
an older age now then in most of history, there is also scientific
evidence
that (due to diet and other factors) children are also entering puberty
(with it's increase in sexual hormones and interest) at a younger age
then
most of recorded history. So it is very important for us to give
children positive, Godly attitudes toward the body and sex to
counteract
what they hear from the world if we want them to live up to God's
purpose
for sex. (The Bible talks much more about adultery then it does
premarital
sex, if people in Biblical times got married closer to, even before,
the
onset of puberty that could be a good reason why!)
Do I think social nudity is the answer for
cleaning up sexual immorality
in our culture? NO, NO, NO, a thousand times NO! I believe
it can help, but because of the fall there will always be sin in this
world.
The only answer to sin is Jesus Christ! If people know Jesus,
live,
and put their trust in Him, He'll take care of the problems he needs to
in their lives. Whether it is selfishness, fear, lust,
immorality,
pornography, dishonesty, drugs, racial bigotry, gossip, gluttony,
shame,
etc., Philippians 1:6 says "He who began the good work in us is
faithful
to complete it.” As many benefits as I see with social nudity, I
still know that efforts to directly clean up the problems in our
culture
while they may sound very wise, only clean the surface, at best, while
the heart is still dead. Only Jesus can revive and clean up the
heart,
Jesus must come first!! But social nudity can help point people
in
the right direction. A personal relationship with Jesus Christ
and
rejecting body shame via social nudity is a powerful and positive
combination
in developing positive attitudes about the body and sexual morality.
THE
PROBLEM OF PRIDE
Col 2:20-23 says, "Since you died with Christ and
were made free from
the ruling spirits of this world, why do you act as if you still
belonged
to this world by following rules like these: "Don't eat this," "Don't
taste
that," "Don't even touch that thing"? These rules refer to
earthly
things that are gone as soon as they are used. They are only
manmade
commands and teachings. They seem to be wise, but they are only
part
of a manmade religion. They make people pretend not to be proud
and
make them punish their bodies, but they do not really control the evil
desires of the sinful self." (Emphasis mine) How does Col.
2:20-23 relate to nudity? Simple, we have rules in this world
against
nudity; these rules refer to earthly things and are manmade. They
help us pretend to be more modest and pure, i.e. not proud. These
rules make us punish and deny the goodness of our bodies. They do
nothing to deny the evil desires of the sinful self. And they
seem
to be wise, while they in fact make the body more enticing to our
sinful
nature! Controlling the flesh by the law is just an illusion; we
must be led by the Spirit! And the Spirit leads to Godly freedom,
not more laws, and regulations!!
Again, because of the fall there will always be
sin in this world.
Including lust for the body and other sexual sins. Col 2:23 says
manmade commands do not control evil desires. Rom. 5:20 says,
"The
law was added so that the trespass might increase." If we can't
get
rid of sin by self effort and the law does not control evil desires but
in fact increases them, doesn't it make sense that we should at the
very
least not increase evil desires toward nudity by establishing laws
against
it?! The most we can do, the thing we need to do, is not to try
to
control ourselves or others with more laws the Lord did not
establish.
We need to allow Jesus to be in control of our lives and share him, in
love, with others.
Pretending not to be proud (v.23) gets to the hart
of the problem that
keeps us from depending on God alone to free us from sin. Because
we are proud we want to blame things other than ourselves for sin (like
Adam and Eve did). If we have a law that says, "thou shalt not
look
upon a naked person,” we can blame nakedness for our impure
thoughts.
If nakedness is considered sinful it's easy to place blame and say, "I
had impure thoughts because I saw someone naked, in revealing clothes,
or I imagined them naked.” But, if we acknowledge that God's
creation
is pure and holy, that simply seeing it could not cause sin, and if we
still have impure thoughts, then we would have to acknowledge that the
sin comes from inside us and does not result from just seeing
nakedness.
Our sinful pride doesn't want to acknowledge that, it wants something
outside
of ourselves to blame our sin on. I think this is part of why God
called King David a "man after His own heart.” When David was
confronted
with his adultery he didn't blame Bathsheba, he didn't say, "If I
hadn't
seen her bathing naked, I wouldn't have committed adultery.” or make
any
other excuses. No, instead he simply took responsibility for his
sin and said, "I have sinned against the Lord" (2nd Sam. 12:13)
Adam
blamed Eve and God for making Eve, Eve blamed the serpent, we blame
nudity
or whatever, David took responsibility for his sin.
WHAT
IS MODESTY?
Some Christians say, pointing to 1st Timothy
2:9,10, that we must wear
clothes for modesty. So lets take a look at this. Paul says
"I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, not
with
braided hair or gold or pearls, or expensive clothes, but with good
deeds,
appropriate for women who profess to worship God.” The context
here
as evidenced by the accompanying verses is for times when people are
gathered
for worship and instruction. This would not be the best time to
be
trying
to attract attention to yourself since your focus should be on
God!
This wasn't a ban on nudity at appropriate times, even in church!
History clearly shows that it was custom for men, women, and children
to
be baptized naked, together, in church, for at least the first four
centuries
A.D. Naked baptism was also the norm before and during the
lifetimes
of both Jesus and Paul. (When Jesus was baptized He, John the
Baptist,
and others being baptized would have all been naked. These and
the
watching would have included men, women, and children. Some early
artwork of the church clearly shows Jesus being baptized nude (Such as
the Arian Baptistery mosaic at Ravenna. See http://www.hp.uab.edu/image_archive/ulj/mosaic48.jpg
for a picture.), later as negative attitudes about God's creation
became
more prominent in the church, the art changed, with even some of the
earlier
artwork being painted over.) If Paul or Jesus had, had a problem
with this tradition they certainly would have said something about it.
Paul had some concern for outward appearances of
modesty, but he was
much more concerned with what came from the heart. Paul knew that
it is very possible to dress very modestly and still act and think in a
very immodest way. Notice that the things Paul says not to wear
are
physical such as gold, pearls, and expensive clothes, while the things
he says to wear are inner qualities such as propriety and good
deeds.
The modesty which is most important, is an inner quality or attitude,
It
doesn't mean dressed, it means not vain or boastful, unassuming.
Or as a quote I've seen says "Modesty isn't measured by the yard of
fabric,
but rather by what a person thinks and does." Yes I am saying
it's
possible to be naked and modest. If modesty means not being vain
or boastful, but being unassuming, then someone who is simply naked and
unadorned can be much more modest then someone, in church, dressed in
their
Sunday best trying to look good, attract attention, and impress
others!!
Are any swimsuits modest at any time? There
is no functional purpose
for them, they don't protect you from injury, in fact a U.S. Government
study found that swimming suits increase the chances of getting stung
by
sea lice or jelly fish (over swimming nude), since they most often
sting
when they get trapped between your suit and skin. They don't aid
in swimming, in the 1980's the West German Olympic Swim Team found that
even the tight fitting competition swimsuits athletes wore slow down a
swimmer. I understand that they often practiced nude and
(unsuccessfully)
petitioned to be able to compete nude (as all athletes did in the
original
Olympics) at the 1984 Olympics in Los Angeles. Even small ones
inhibit
the proper, healthy functioning of the skin and like other tight
clothing
can impede the natural flow of blood and lymphatic fluid. All
they
do is cover parts of the body, with no purely functional reason for
doing
so. Who really wants or likes to wear something wet and clammy
anyway!
It is much better health wise when you come out of the water, to have
all
of your body dry at an even rate, then to have something wet and cold
wrapped
around parts of your body.
I personally find swimsuits, not nudity, to be
offensive. Why?
Because covering parts of the body when it is illogical to do so, such
as for swimming, sunbathing, working out, etc. only draws more
attention
the parts covered (with colors and patterns) then if everyone just
swam,
sunbathed, and worked out naked. Think about it, doesn't covering
just a small part of the body really just draw attention to it, and
highlight
it? (For example: do not attractive bracelets or watches on
peoples
wrists draw more attention and interest then bare wrists? Also is
your attention normally drawn to ears or to earrings?) There is
simply
no common sense reason to wear any clothing in the water or while
sunbathing!!
(Make that warm water; full body thermal suits are (of course)
necessary
protection to keep people from freezing in extremely cold water.)
The only reasons people wear swimsuits are either because they want to
attract attention or because they believe that part of God's wonderful
creation is indecent and shameful! What dysfunctional clothing
such
as swimming suits really do is express contempt or discomfort (lack of
acceptance) for parts of the body.
A
LITTLE HISTORY
Clothing specifically designed and mandated for
swimming has only been
around since the 1830's. Before that when people swam nudity was
the norm, not the exception. Modesty is also economic.
Today
as in the past, nakedness is simply part of life for many simple,
primitive
cultures. In third world countries nakedness is often a part of
their
poverty. Nude beaches were more common before the wall fell in
Eastern
Germany then they are now. Why? Because whole (even
extended)
families where so poor that they often lived in one room. There
is
very little modesty possible in a situation like that. So when
they
went to the beach, many of them saw very little reason wear clothes,
let
alone spend some of the very meager amount of money they had to buy
something
just to wear in the water! While nudity is still very common and
accepted in Germany, it is not as common in eastern Germany as it was
before
the wall fell.
The fairly recent (in terms of world history)
level of privacy attained
by the luxury of indoor plumbing and separate bedrooms for children has
brought a level of modesty never possible before. Communal and/or
family baths where common even in the repressed dark ages, due to the
physical
difficulty of providing hot water. (That is when they bathed;
there
have long been times when those in power and control proclaimed to the
masses that the human body is indecent and sinful. The dark ages
was one of those times. Though the level of body modesty and
privacy
that is taken for granted by most today, wasn't available to most
then.)
It was also common for whole households (along with any guests) to
sleep
naked in the same room until the sixteenth century.
In art, the acceptability of nudity changes with
the times and is not
always deemed erotic or offensive. An example is a fresco from
the
Brancacci Chapel in the church Santa Maria del Carmine in Florence,
Italy
by the Renaissance artist Masaccio. This fresco (entitled "The
Expulsion
from the Garden of Eden") was painted in 1426-27 with fig leaves added
in the 1670s to conceal the nudity of Adam and Eve which were recently
removed during a restoration. I used the altered version in the
title
section of this article go to
http://gallery.euroweb.hu/tours/brancacc/expuls.html
to see the difference. The famous Sistine Chapel in Rome is
another
excellent example of this. Michelangelo originally painted many
nudes
that had cloth painted over them by another artist many years later, to
be recently restored to the original.
Historians, the Bible, other ancient texts, and
art of the period all
tell us that nudity was much more common in Biblical times. Plain
logic does as well; cloth was made by hand on very primitive looms that
were nothing more than a rectangular frame with handmade yarn stretched
across it. Obviously this method of making cloth would have been
very hard, time consuming, tedious, and expensive. Most people
had
very little beyond the basics of food, clothing, and shelter, clothing
would have probably taken at least as high a percentage of their income
than cars, and all of their related expenses take of ours! Even
then
most people only had a couple outfits, if that, not 10, 20, 30, or more
outfits that many people have today.
Maintaining clothing was not easy either.
They cleaned their clothes
(as is still done in some parts of the world today) by beating them on
rocks in a stream, this is not only hard work, it also destroys the
fibers.
Slaves, captives, and the impoverished, were usually nude. People
who owed money would give their clothes as a promise of the money they
owed (see Exodus 22:25-27). Heavy and dirty work such as field
work,
brick making, and fishing, (see John 21:7) was also usually done nude
because
it made working more comfortable and it saved wear and tear on their
clothes.
Children were often naked as well. Wealthy business, community,
and
religious leaders and their families were very likely the only people
who
could afford to wear clothing all of the time. Clothing was (and
still is) a symbol of social and economic status.
Before, during, and after the New Testament time
athletes trained and
competed in the nude. (As they should do today!) Paul used
these competitions as positive examples at least six times, (Acts
20:24,
1 Cor. 9:24-27, Gal. 2:2 and 5:7, 2 Tim 4:7-8, and Heb 12:1) with no
hint
of condemnation regarding nudity. The athletes where nude because
it had been proven that clothing hindered their performance, Paul
referred
directly to this in Heb. 12:1 (NIV) when he said "Therefore since we
are
surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off
everything
that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with
perseverance the race marked out for us." (Emphasis mine)
Instead
of condemning it, Paul directly used the athletes nudity as a positive
example for us!
There is no "proof text" one way or the other for
something like a "nudist
club" is that nakedness was common. (And like many other aspects
of our daily life God didn't need to give specific instruction on
this.
His Spirit, principles, and love are enough to guide us.) Clubs
for
the purpose of social nudity (only) would have been absurd in that
society.
If athletes trained and competed nude, today in our society, if
families
bathed together and slept nude in the same room today, if people
today normally went to the beach or pool nude, worked out at the gym or
health club nude (By the way gym means "place to be naked" in the
Greek,
so actually the ancient gym's and bath's could be considered
"nudist
clubs".), sunbathed in the park nude, worked in the garden, field,
house,
or fished nude, hiked and camped nude, "nudist clubs" probably wouldn't
exist today either, it would be absurd! Nudity would not be an
issue
in such a society, it would just simply be accepted. Think how
much
money and other resources could be saved on clothing and laundry!
Kids could even play in the mud to their hearts content, then simply
get
hosed off, rather than getting in trouble for ruining their clothes.
PURITY
CANNOT BE BUILT ON A FOUNDATION OF SHAME!
Hopefully, as Christians, we all want to develop
healthy, Godly attitudes
toward the human body. But if we are taught that parts of the
human
body are dirty and indecent, it is extremely difficult to develop those
healthy, positive, God pleasing attitudes towards it. Insisting
that
nakedness can only be immoral makes as much sense as insisting that
fire
can only destroy life and property, and has no useful or redeeming
purpose.
Everything can be used for good or evil, a hammer can be used to build
or destroy. The same is true for nudity, in pornography and strip
clubs nudity is exploited to arouse lust. In most "Christian"
settings
today nudity as not allowed and is called indecent, resulting in
feelings
of shame AND lust. However at a beach, swimming pool, gym, nudist
club, at home, and other non-sexually charged environments nudity can
be
used to help us become more comfortable with, accept, and develop
respect
for the body God gave us. Although being comfortable with nudity
doesn't eliminate sexual lust it does help take some of the sexual
mystery,
allure, and temptation away from the body. We may enjoy what we
see
everyday but we don't tend to lust, as much, for what is not
forbidden.
Make something we are attracted to forbidden and we will lust for
it!
Teach us something is impure and we will have impure thoughts about
it.
The repression of nudity INVITES the sexual exploitation of it!
Our bodies and minds are trainable. As a
child I was exposed to
potato chips and I quickly developed a taste for them. My body
and
mind were trained to respond positively to them. Now just the
thought
of potato chips makes my mouth water. If I had been born into a
different
culture, my body and mind could have been trained to respond, in the
same
way to dried seaweed. (I have seen Japanese eat dried seaweed
like
it was potato chips!) Unfortunately in this culture we have been
trained to automatically associate nakedness with sex, and to respond
to
nakedness with sexual arousal. Cultures where nakedness is common
do not associate nakedness with sex only, as this culture does.
Truth
is universal, if nakedness (by itself) in other cultures does not
automatically
cause sexual arousal or impure thoughts, then the belief in this
culture
(that it does) is simply put, a lie! Nether is this belief
supportive
or helpful in our quest to lead pure and Godly lives. It is
clearly
NOT how God would want us to respond to the goodness of His
creation.
We should see the human body as God's pure and good creation, not as
something
that leads to temptation. As we develop a more Godly view of the
human body our main source of sexual arousal should become the love and
relationship we share with our spouse, not just a body!
As Christians (especially if we see the body as a
source of temptation)
we need to retrain ourselves to have respect for the body God has given
us, and to see nakedness in a non-sexual, wholesome, and pure
way.
To do this we must interpret what the Bible says about the body and
nakedness
in light of God's character, not current views. Nothing will
teach
you that nakedness can be non-sexual faster than getting naked
regularly
in wholesome, non-sexual, social settings. However, since Rom.
14:23
says "Anything that is done without believing it is right is
sin.”
I would caution that you do need to accept and believe that
nakedness can be beneficial and right before you try social
nudity.
If you where to try social nudity when you believe it is sinful, that
would
be sin for you.
But, this does not mean that you wait until you're
comfortable with
it before you do it! Believing something is good is different
then
being comfortable with something. Whether it's riding a bike,
driving
a car, playing a sport, using a computer, cooking, or anything new, you
won't become comfortable with it until you've done it. The good
news
is bodies are very basic to us; most people are comfortable with
non-sexual
nudity within 5-30 minutes, so that part is easy! Study on this
more,
pray and seek God's wisdom about it, and when you believe it is right
so
you can do it in faith, do it.
If we have started to believe something contrary
to what we have been
taught our whole lives it will make us uncomfortable. Because of
that conditioning, even if you've started to believe that nakedness can
bepure, wholesome, and beneficial, you won't become comfortable with it
until you experience it. Actions speak louder than words.
Think
about it. What would happen if you tell yourself that all parts
of
the body are pure, wholesome, and acceptable, but you never change your
actions to reflect that? What if you never experience nudity,
around
others, in a wholesome, non-sexual environment? Wouldn't the only
way left to experience or see nudity be in a sexual environment?
And wouldn't you still have that constant message coming from the world
that equates nudity only with sex? So wouldn't your response to
seeing
nakedness stay pretty much the same? Don't you need to have
something
to counteract the world's message? (Seaweed is very nutritious
and
I could tell myself that seaweed is good for me all I want, but I'll
never
experience any benefits from it until after I start eating it!!)
MOVING
IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION
Since pornography is most commonly associated with
nudity in this culture
it has a strong sexual cue. If however non-sexual things like
athletics,
swimming, camping, working, and relaxing around the house and yard,
etc.,
were even more commonly associated with nudity, nudity (by itself)
would
loose much of its sexual cue. Does that mean we wouldn't be
sexually
attracted by someone's physical appearance? Well let me ask this,
do you currently find someone attractive when they're clothed, or only
when they're nude? Of course you find people to be attractive
when
they're clothed not just nude! This really wouldn't change.
However, since non-sexual nudity does remove some of the mystique from
the body it does take some of the attention away from the body and
places
it more on the whole person.
If you are struggling with lust or addiction to
pornography, I believe
nudism can be a help (with direction from the Holy Spirit). There
is an outstanding article that was published in Leadership magazine
years
ago, that told of a pastor's 10-year struggle with lust, pornography,
and
strip clubs. This article doesn't mention social nudity, but it
does
mention some things he found that helped him overcome his
addiction.
I believe non-sexual, social, nudity relates to some of these. He
said to demythologize pornography. Photos in pornography use only
the best looking models, and are still retouched, staged and are
therefore
unrealizable. (Some centerfold models have said they almost
didn't
recognize themselves after all the retouching that is done to their
photographs.
Surprise, surprise, the perfect body in the centerfold is an
illusion!)
With non-sexual, social nudity bodies are not retouched or staged and
represent
a broad spectrum of body types. He said to recognize the humanity
of your victims. With social nudity you are not just passively
looking
at anonymous nude bodies, you are interacting with and getting to know
people on a human level. He also said to study sex in
perspective.
Social nudity can definitely separate nudity from an automatic
association
with sex and change your perspective. Many people have been freed
from bondage to pornography, by developing greater respect for the body
through social nudism.
Being unashamed and comfortable with nakedness
does not guarantee purity
of thought. We still have indwelling sin, and we don't live (day
to day) in a supportive world that has healthy attitudes about the
body.
We live in a world that is constantly feeding us very unhealthy and
sinful
messages about the body. Our indwelling sin still feeds on those
messages and we may also have 20, 40, 60, or more years of that
negative
programming in us. It requires trust in and direction from the
Holy
Spirit plus, conscious, deliberate effort, to unlearn a sinful
reasoning
process or emotional response and replace it with a Godly one.
But
the effort (of training ourselves in righteousness) is worth it.
It's a very important step in the right direction because; shame does
guarantee
impurity of thought!
As mentioned above, most everyone becomes
comfortable with social nudity
very quickly, when they are introduced to it. When you are nude
in
a group of nude people it seems so natural that you tend to forget
about
it. Kids going through puberty (especially males) have the most
resistance
to nudity, if they aren't used to it. They are already so overly
sensitive about their bodies, the changes they are going though, and
the
new feelings they are having, that if they weren't raised with nudity
as
part of their life, the very idea of it grosses them out! Have
patience,
if they can see the value in it, and you set a good example, it may not
take them too long to adjust either. Even if they are negative or
unsure about it before hand. Younger kids are a different story,
when they go to a nudist club or beach, etc. the first time most of
them
take to it instantly, with great delight.
A
REASON TO CHANGE
Some think nudists get a thrill over seeing others
naked, but it isn't
really exciting or arousing, frankly most people in this fallen,
imperfect
world don't have perfect bodies and look better with their clothes
on!
So why would anyone want to go naked or see others naked? For me
learning to see the bodies God gave us in a more positive wholesome way
is reason enough, but there are also others. It frees people from
false shame and seeing that virtually no one lives up to the TV,
Hollywood,
beauty magazine, or Playboy ideal also helps people feel more
comfortable
with and accept their bodies. Most nudists find being naked
around
others very freeing, it seems to release a lot of stress and
pressure.
Could this be because clothes create a barrier, and that people at some
level have a need to know what others bodies really, honestly look like
("good looking" or not)? Nudity removes a barrier between people
of the false masks and images we create (with our clothes) and leaves
us
with only what God has created. Forbidding nudity keeps that
barrier
firmly in place. Many say nudity allows us to relate more with
people,
rather than the identities their clothes create, such as rich, poor,
doctor,
police, priest, waitress, blue collar, white collar, etc. It is
also
more comfortable; it just feels good for many activities. Once
you've
gone swimming or sat in a spa without a swimsuit you'll never want to
wear
one again!
For Christians the reason to change our attitude
toward and accept nakedness
is so we can allow Christ to renew our minds with the truth that God
designed
the human body. That it is pure, wholesome, decent, Holy,
acceptable,
and not a source of shame or lust. (Do not conform any longer to
the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your
mind.
Rom. 12:2, Live by the Spirit and you will not gratify the desires of
the
flesh Gal. 5:16). Why would God want us to be ashamed of His
creation
that He pronounced was very good? Satan wants us to stumble and
fall,
not God. I believe that, Satan wants us to be uncomfortable with
our bodies, not God. Satan wants us to have impure thoughts, not
God. Satan wants to distort and corrupt everything beautiful of
God's.
Satan also wants us to tempt us, in our pride, to want to be like God
rather
then being content to simply be Gods eternally and completely loved
creation.
Adam and Eve were naked and unashamed when they
were in a right relationship
with God. (Gen. 2:25) Thanks to what Jesus did on thecross
and through the resurrection, those who have accepted Him into their
lives
have been restored to a right relationship with God ( Rom.5:10, Eph.
1:7,
1st Cor. 6:11, Tit. 3:5, 2nd Cor. 5:21, Col. 3:3, Rom. 5:17 etc.,
etc.).
Every sin is a perversion of truth and part of God's truth is that
everything
He created is good, pure, and decent. I believe that those who
are
ashamed of the body have accepted a lie of Satan and follow error not
truth.
Not only do I believe that nakedness is not a sin, but I believe that
being
ashamed of nakedness is a sin. Adam and Eve were only ashamed after
they
sinned and died spiritually, not before.
BACK
TO THE BEGINNING
Ah yes, about Adam and Eve. They where not
blind before the fall!
So what was it that they were really ashamed of? Why does the
Bible
say that their eyes were opened and they realized they were naked,
after
the fall? Good questions, the true answers only God knows.
Any answers we give can only come from reasoned speculation.
Since
the Bible often uses physical things to illustrate spiritual truth, I
believe
that the answer is spiritual. I believe that it was their
spiritual
eyes that were opened and their spiritual nakedness that they where
ashamed
of, not their bodies. After the fall they could see that (or they
realized that) all of their thoughts, motives, actions, and deeds, etc.
were open and exposed (naked) before God. They had no reason to
be
ashamed of any of these things before the fall, now they did.
This
is what they were ashamed of, not the bodies God gave them! The
physical
nakedness here is also an illustration of spiritual nakedness.
They
had no more reason to be ashamed of their bodies after the fall then
they
did before the fall. They did have reason to be ashamed of their
thoughts and actions! We assume otherwise, because we've been
taught
otherwise, we've been taught to associate nakedness with sex
(especially
sexual immorality), pornography, and sin! At the time in which
Moses
wrote Genesis many other things (both positive and negative) where
associated
with nakedness. Three things were closely associated with shame
and
nakedness that I believe fit the context very well, those are poverty,
slavery, and captivity. I believe this illustrates that they went
from the riches of being spiritually alive to the poverty of being
spiritually
dead, and from being free in God to being a slave of and captured by
sin,
from being unashamed to being ashamed (not of their body but) of their
exposed, sinful, dead spiritual condition.
In Gen. 3:7&8 Adam and Eve where not standing
around with fig leaves
only covering their genitals, as depicted in much Christian art!
They first made aprons of fig leaves (I realize it may have been
different
back then, but most of the aprons I've seen cover the front from about
the neck to the knees, except for the arms. That covers a lot
more
skin then most of the paintings of Adam and Eve do!) then they
hid
from God in the trees! They where like children afraid of getting
caught. When a young child has done something wrong and is afraid
of getting caught he/she will often run and hide under a bed or in a
closet
and try to cover themselves, so mommy and daddy can't find them.
Any notion that their consciences were appeased with a single fig leaf
over the genitals is ridiculous, and not what the Bible says!
They
knew what they had done was very wrong; they wanted to hide and not be
found! When God called them out they did not confess their sin,
they
tried to cover it up by placing blame and making excuses (again, just
like
children).
Why does the Bible specify "fig" leaves rather
than just leaves or naming
some other kind of leaf? The original Hebrew word used here can
also
imply excuses!! Because of sin they had become self righteous,
independent,
would not admit they were at fault, they blamed each other and Satan,
even
God!, and made excuses for what they had done. Many people say
that
we can't go naked because God made Adam and Eve clothes in Gen.
3:21.
That is true He did make them clothes, but He also did not say or
command
that they should never go naked again, then or anywhere else in the
Bible.
In fact God later specifically commanded Isaiah to go naked among the
people
(For three whole years no less! Isaiah 20:2-4.) God would not
command
Isaiah to sin or do something that would cause others to have impure
thoughts,
would He?
So why did God make clothes for Adam and
Eve? On the practical
side, they were being cast out of paradise and would now need something
for protection. But much more importantly I believe that this is
again a spiritual illustration. I Believe it shows that
humanity’s
feeble attempts to remedy sin are not sufficient and points to Christ,
who is our righteousness. Prior to sinning they where naturally
righteous,
before God, and in no need of covering (spiritual or otherwise).
This can illustrate that after they sinned they tried to provide their
own covering (or righteousness). God then showed that this is not
acceptable, it is still only He that can provide our righteousness
(covering),
our efforts will not and cannot do it. Since they were no longer
naturally righteous, another way had to be provided (Jesus), what He
did
next pointed to Christ.
God did not make their clothes out of more leaves,
cotton, any other
plant fiber, or even synthetics, like most of the clothes we wear
today.
He made them clothes from animal skin. This implies that He
killed
an innocent animal, showing (from the beginning) that innocent blood
had
to be shed because of sin. This could have even been an animal
Adam
and Eve cared for, as well as the first example of physical death that
they saw. The blood sacrifices of animals covered sins (as
illustrated
here). However the sacrifice of Jesus didn't just cover sin, it
took
away our sin and made us righteous again! If any one can be free
from shame it should be Christians who have accepted Christ into their
lives and whose sins have been taken away at the cross (John 1:29, Heb.
9:23-28, 1st Tim. 1:15,16, Heb. 10:10-14, 1st Pet. 3:18, etc., etc.)
and
whose spiritual life has been restored through the resurrection (Rom.
6:23,
John 5:39,40, John 11:25, Rom. 5:10, Col. 2:13, etc., etc.).
You may say that these spiritual illustrations
I've described are nothing
but speculation. I would agree, I will also point out that saying
Adam and Eve were ashamed because of their genitals, sexual desire, or
any type of sexual sin is also nothing but speculation, the Bible
doesn't
say that. It does say that God commanded them to be fruitful and
multiply before the fall and it doesn't record any other people in the
garden that they could have even had sexual desire for, let alone sex
with,
outside of God's will. In the context of husband and wife sex and
sexual desire is good and blessed by God. Male and female
genitals
are made good by God; they are inherently good in and out of the
context
of sex. Adam never said he was ashamed because he desired sex, or
because of his or Eve's genitals. He said "I was afraid because I
was naked, so I hid.” To say anything else is to speculate.
There is no Biblically sound or justifiable reason to speculate that
Adam
and Eve's shame was related to sex, or the genitals. I believe
there
are Biblically sound and justifiable reasons to speculate that it was
due
to spiritual exposure.
WHO
DETERMINES?
Something else remains in the story of Adam and
Eve. When they
were living in a dependent relationship with God it was He and not
themselves
who was determining right and wrong for them. It was God's
intention
that they always live this way. He was to be their source for
everything,
their God. As long as God was their only source, questions of
right
and wrong would not have been a concern or even dawned on them.
Only
God (not we) has the rightful authority to determine right from
wrong.
The temptation they fell for was to know (or determine) right from
wrong
for themselves and therefore be like God. (See Gen. 3:5)
God
never told them they should be ashamed of nakedness. God never
told
them nakedness was wrong, they did that themselves. Even if it is
the specific reason they became ashamed is speculation for us the fact
that God never told them they should be ashamed of nakedness is
not.
He never told them that, they determined that on their own! When
Adam said he was afraid because he was naked. God did not agree
with
Adam and tell him that he was right to be ashamed of nakedness.
Far
from it! God rebuked Adam by asking "Who told you that you where
naked? Did you eat from the tree I told you not to eat?”
(Gen.
3:11) Adam's shame showed that something was wrong, not right.
We have followed Adam and Eve's example. God
never told us that
parts of the human body (including the genitals) are indecent.
God
never told us that simple nakedness, in itself, would lead to sexual
temptation.
We (with Satan's prompting) told ourselves! We determined for
ourselves
that we know better then God!!! What does scripture say about
this
kind of attitude? Look at the following scriptures; "You
turn
things upside down, as if the potter were thought to be like the
clay!
Shall what is formed say to him who formed it, "He did not make
me"?
Can the pot say of the potter, "He knows nothing?” (Isaiah 29:16)
and " 'Woe to him who quarrels with his Maker, to him who is but
a potsherd among the potsherds on the ground. Does the clay say
to
the potter, "What are you Making?' Does your work say, "He has no
hands"? Woe to him who says to his father, "what have you
begotten?'
or to his mother, What have you brought to birth?' “ This
is
what the Lord says - the Holy One of Israel, and it’s Maker: Concerning
things to come, do you question me about my children, or give orders
about
the work of my hands? It is I who made the Earth and created
mankind
upon it.’" (Isaiah 45:9-12) "When people are tempted, they
should not say, 'God is tempting me.' Evil cannot tempt God, and
God himself does not tempt anyone. But people are tempted when
their
own evil desire leads them away and traps them. This desire leads
to sin, and then the sin grows and brings death. My dear brothers
and sisters do not be fooled about this. Every good action and
every
perfect gift is from God. These good gifts come down from the
Creator
of the sun, moon, and stars, who does not change like their shifting
shadows."
(James 1:13-17)
God tells us that it is our own evil desires that
lead us to temptation,
but we take the responsibility for our evil desires and blame them on
God
when we say the human body causes lust! Scripture says God will
not
tempt us. It also says the human body is a perfect gift from God
that he said is very good! There's a limerick that expresses most
Christian's attitude about the body pretty well, "It was highly
unseemly
of God to have made us so vulgarly odd; Were He truly refined, He'd
have
surely designed us a more tasteful (G-rated) bod. Romans 9:20
says,
"You are only human, and human beings have no right to question
God.
An object should not ask the person who made it, "Why did you make me
like
this?” "But we in our sinful self-righteousness and pride have
said
in essence, "It's not my fault I have impure thoughts, if God had
designed
things differently I wouldn't have thoughts like that." What
utter
and complete sin!!!!
Wearing clothes also makes us like God in another
way. When we
are simply naked all we have is what God gave us (with nothing of our
own
design or making), just like the animals, the plants, and the rest
of
God's creation. But when we put on clothes, we become our own
creator.
With our clothes we, not God, create how we look. We create part
of our identity, our self-image, and how we feel about ourselves, when
we should be trusting God for all of those things. Clothes are an
expression of self-control, not God-control, and are therefore a
continuation
of original sin, not a ceasing of it! Clothes are a symbol of
sin,
not nudity! If there was no sin, there would be no clothes, at
least
not because of sin and shame. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not
saying
that we shouldn't wear clothes, to function in this world we have to,
(Earth
no longer has the perfect climate of Eden.) and just as God never told
us not to ever go naked, He never told us not to wear clothes!
I'm
also not saying that we shouldn't be creative. Far from it, we
are
the expression of a very creative God, we can express that by being
creative
ourselves. What I am saying is that it is good and healthy to
spend
time naked, without our clothes, masks, and self-created
identities.
It is good to spend some time just being who God created, remembering
that
is He and not we who created us, after all. I think this is why
many
people say they feel closer to God when naked.
I'm also saying that we should not put
restrictions on ourselves or
others that God did not establish. Isaiah 29:13 says, "These
people
show me honor with words, but their hearts are far from me. Their
worship of me is worthless. The things they teach are nothing but
human rules." Jesus quotes it in Matt 15:9 and Mark 7:7. Jesus
also
said of teachers of the law in Matt 23:4, 15 "They make strict rules
and
try to force others to obey them, but they are unwilling to help those
who struggle under the weight of their rules." "How terrible for
you, teachers of the law and Pharisees! You are hypocrites!
You travel across land and sea to find one person who will change to
your
ways. When you find that person, you make him more fit for hell
than
you are." Clearly we should not be adding to God's law
restrictions
that He did not put there!
PUTTING
ON BODY ACCEPTANCE
Being uncomfortable with nudity isn't always an
issue of morality.
I've talked with many people about the moral issues and had them agree,
but not act on it. Sometimes it's fear, (because it's new to them
and goes against how they have been conditioned) but it can also be a
poor
body image that stops them. They don't think they look good
enough
to go nude around others. Believe me nudist clubs and beaches are
not filled with super models! Far from it, there are all types of
body shapes and sizes, most being very average. I have seen
disabled
in wheelchairs, disfigured, and people who have had limbs or breasts
removed
at nudist clubs. I have seen good-looking fit people and unfit
people
that are too thin or too large for optimum health at nudist
clubs.
They have found a place where they are accepted as they are and could
learn
to feel better about and accept their bodies.
No matter what shape your body is in, it is still
wonderful. Getting
over any fear of being nude can help you realize that. Psalm
139:14
says, "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”
He made all of us wonderfully but until you decide to believe that, you
will not know the freedom of being thankful to God for, accepting,
respecting,
and being comfortable with your body. Overweight people tend to
look
better nude because there are no belts or straps pulling the body into
unnatural shapes. Seeing all types of bodies naked can help you
to
accept the body God gave you, you'll probably be amazed at how quickly
you will become comfortable and start to accept your body more. I
encourage you to step past your fears and try social nudism; I believe
you'll discover a wonderful new inner freedom and many other benefits.
It is those who don't think they look good enough to go nude that gain
the most from it in terms of accepting their bodies. People who
are
self-conscious about their body find they are far more comfortable, and
less self-conscious at a nudist club than at a regular pool or beach in
a swimsuit.
Women usually have more reluctance about trying
social nudity than men.
This is often because they are more self conscience about their looks,
since women's bodies have been sexually objectified more then
men's.
They are concerned about how they'll compare to other women and that
they'll
be ogled by men who only have sex on their mind. When they find
out
that they are just as normal as other women (There are no super model,
perfect bodies apart from cameras and makeup, etc.), and that men
aren't
overcome with lust at the sight of nudity, they often find social
nudism
even more personally liberating and freeing then men. They feel
that
in social nudism they are more truly accepted as they are, rather then
for the image projected by clothes, makeup, etc.
For males (especially teens) there is a very
common fear of becoming
sexually aroused and getting an erection when at a social nudist club
or
beach. To the surprise of many men, there is little need to be
concerned
First, the reality is that seeing an attractive lady nude at a pool or
beach is less sexually arousing then seeing the same lady in a bathing
suit, or an attractive evening dress since the bathing suit, or dress,
etc., both attracts attention and leaves a man wondering exactly how
she
looks without it! (Although the body is obviously involved in
sex,
in healthy, lasting, sexual attraction the primary source of attraction
is personal or relational, not physical. Nudity in a social,
non-sexual
atmosphere lessens this cultures over emphasized draw of physical
attraction
and naturally places greater importance on personal and relational
attraction.)
Non-sexual, social, nudity simply doesn't excite the imagination nearly
as much as a bit of cloth does! Second, the normal state of the
penis
is flaccid not erect whether a male, or the people around him, are nude
or clothed. (Most men tend to overestimate their tendency to get
involuntary erections).
However the reality is spontaneous erections still
do occur, for most
men over 30-35 less frequently, but for teens and younger adults they
can
be frequent, completely spontaneous, embarrassing, and happen at the
most
awkward times. While an erection does indicate sexual arousal,
that
arousal may be totally unconscious (in fact it usually happens during
sleep),
or fleeting and beyond the males control, it may even be caused by
sensual
things such as a breeze on the body, or the feeling of the sun coming
out
from behind the clouds, etc. It is a function of the body
designed
by God and therefore good in itself (it is what someone does with or
without
an erection that can lewd or offensive, not the erection itself).
Ideally they should be accepted as a normal, and expected body function
that should simply be ignored (apart from any lewd behavior). If
any male (but especially a younger one) is told he is required to cover
or leave a nudist club or beach simply because of a uncontrollable,
spontaneous
body function (rather than because of controllable behavior), it makes
him even more self-conscious and uncomfortable about erections.
It
is also inconsistent to communicating a message that the whole body is
good and acceptable.
However at many nudist clubs and beaches, in the
U.S at least, erections
are not usually simply ignored and accepted as normal. Even teens
getting erections (which should be expected), without lewd behavior,
can
result in the teen being asked to cover up, or even he AND his
family
being asked to leave. So, if a man, or boy, finds himself getting
an erection while at a nudist club, it is WISE as well as polite and
respectful
of others possible feelings about erections for him to lay on his
stomach
for a while, swim, put a towel in his lap, or otherwise cover it, and
think
about something else until it disappears. (Many naturists do
choose
to simply accept erections in more private family/friends situations
where
they know no-one will be offended by it.) Once again the penis is
flaccid most of the time and erections don't happen as often as most
(even
younger) non-nudist males imagine they will. Even so, the
attitude
about them at many clubs is one of the primary reasons many male
children
(even those raised going to nudist clubs from infancy) always wear at
least
shorts outside the pool and hot tub or just stop going to clubs when
they
get into their teens. Many believe the attitude of non-acceptance
communicated about spontaneous erections is also why so few young
(under
30) adult males in general are involved in social nudism, and thus one
reason why it has not become much more widely accepted. (It is
usually
younger people who have more energy, drive, and enthusiasm who are the
trend setters popularizing everything from music and clothing to new
ways
of living and thinking, including many Christian revivals.)
Although social nudity is becoming more popular, I
think one reason
it's not much more popular is vanity. Most people perceive
themselves
and others to look better in clothes. This is why some women
dread
Summer and swimsuits. They can’t hide as many of what they feel
are
flaws. But even the skimpiest bikini is more sexually alluring
then
plain nakedness, because the bikini draws attention with a splash of
color
and titillation that would otherwise be absent. Tan lines are
noticed
at a nudist club or beach simply because of the change of color on the
skin. In fact there's a nudist joke about this. Two men are
sitting by a pool at a nudist club when a nude lady walks by with tan
lines
from a bikini. One turns to the other and says, "I bet she'd look
really sexy in that bikini!" Don't let vanity keep you from
experiencing
the freedom that social nudity can offer!
Another reason is social pressure. Nudity
was very common and
accepted for things like swimming before the mid 1800's, one of the
major
factors that ended that acceptance was social, or class, pressure
combined
with clothing such as swimming suits becoming more affordable for the
masses
(due to the Industrial Revolution and mass, cheap, production in
factories).
The wealthy have always used clothing as a way to separate and put
themselves
above the common, poor person. In the 1800's many rich people saw
swimming nude as low class or common and thus would wear swimming
suits.
So as swimwear became mass produced and more affordable more people
started
wearing it to lift their image above the "poor, indecent, common folk"
and imitate the rich. (In addition there was also much pressure
from
the church and state to stop nude swimming.) Today, I believe
most
people don't swim, etc. nude, simply because they don't see enough
other
people doing it. There is considerable pressure to conform to the
masses and not stand out.
It feels good to be naked (especially swimming!),
but what feels especially
good is a healthy, accepting attitude and freedom from the bondage of
shame
over God's creation. Body shame has created some very unhealthy,
conflicting, negative, and I would say ungodly attitudes about the
human
body. As Christians we need to let God renew our minds with
purity.
In the Message paraphrase Roman's 12:2 reads, "Don't become so well
adjusted
to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking.
Instead,
fix your attention on God. You'll be changed from the inside
out.
Readily recognize what He wants from you, and quickly respond to
it.
Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of
immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well formed
maturity
in you." I believe this is all encompassing and includes how we
view
and treat our bodies. Our level of comfort with nakedness is a
way
of measuring whether we have a Godly (accepting and positive) or
Satanic
(worldly and negative) attitude toward the body.
A
BETTER LEGACY
Some popular "experts,” advice columnists, and
religious leaders warn
that nudity in the home might sexually over stimulate children.
However
studies and the experiences of nudist families have proven the exact
opposite!
So these "experts" seem to be making assumptions based on societal
standards
which equate nudity and sex rather than factual information. (If
a doctor makes a diagnoses based on incomplete or faulty information,
the
treatment will be wrong.) Several studies have shown, not only,
no
harm to children raised around nudity, but great benefit to it in
sexual
and moral development as well as self-esteem. And even far from
all
of the "popular,” well known, experts agree that family nudity is
harmful.
Dr. Lee Salk stated that "Being natural and matter-of-fact about nudity
prevents your children from developing an attitude of shame or disgust
about the human body. If parents are very secretive about their
bodies
and go to great lengths to prevent their children from ever seeing a
buttock
or breast, children will wonder what is so unusual, and even alarming,
about human nudity."
Even the very popular and conservative Christian
family psychologist
Dr. James Dobson has said "In reference to food, you don't starve a
child
to death nor do you give him candy all day long. It's
balance.
It's a middle ground.” “Especially with regard to nudity in the
home,
I think we want to avoid both extremes." "Parents I think should
not flaunt their nudity, their bodies; nor should they grab a towel run
for the corner and crouch when they're stepping out of the shower and
happen
to be seen. I think the best attitude is to show that you're
relaxed
about your own body and you're not fearful of it and you're not
embarrassed
about it." Thankfully in saying this, he is very far from saying
that simple nudity is indecent or wrong and harmful. But I
believe
equating nudity to giving a child "candy all day long" may stem from
the
nudity = sex conditioning of this culture. I also don't know what
he considers to be flaunting nudity (would swimming, house cleaning, or
watching TV nude be flaunting?) I don't think simply not running
for cover when seen stepping out of the shower is enough to communicate
that our bodies are acceptable, good, and decent to children.
However perhaps, I do understand part of these
other "experts" concern
(including Dr. Dobson's with candy and flaunting), we know that in our
society non-sexual nudity is not common, in fact it is almost unheard
of
on TV in the movies, etc. In fact by the time a child is eighteen
they are likely to have been exposed to over two hundred thousand acts
of violence on TV and not seen on TV even one example full frontal,
unashamed,
nudity in a non-sexual context relevant to how that child lives.
If a child has ever seen any nudity on TV in a non-sexual context at
all,
it was probably a show about some primitive tribe living in a rain
forest.
Not exactly something they relate too. Our television doesn't
even
show people in the shower or stepping out of the shower without making
sure certain "offensive" parts are covered. Forget about honestly
showing nudity in non-sexual contexts, such as at the beach, park,
pool,
gym, around the house, swimming, exercising, sunbathing, relaxing,
housecleaning,
sports, etc., etc. Sexually oriented nudity in movies and
pornography
are the contexts in which children will most often be exposed to nudity
(outside the home) of people in this culture who live like they do, and
that they can relate to. So what kind of message are they getting
about nudity, that way?
The repression of public, non-sexual nudity
results in it being more
exploited for sexual purposes. We and our children are bombarded,
more now then ever before, with messages that equate nudity only with
sex,
not just from pornography, but also from TV, movies, magazines, music
videos,
peers, everywhere. To top it off the message is reinforced in
church,
instead of showing a positive godly use and place for nudity, the
church
says it is a sin and harmful! If the only place children are
exposed
to non-sexual nudity is in the home they may (since they have no other
input of non-sexual nudity) have some trouble separating it from all
the
sex = nudity messages they are bombarded with. They may also feel
alienated from society because they don't normally see anyone else nude
outside their family.
Sadly most kids in the U.S. are so uncomfortable
with simply being naked
around others, that they won't even shower after gym class or playing
football
anymore, they wait until they get home alone. Yet we have among
the
highest rates of teenage pregnancy and rape in the world! Clearly
shame and negative feelings about the human body are not healthy.
While nudity in the home should be a common,
accepted, healthy, everyday,
thing, that alone may not be enough to be the best value to children,
or
enough to combat the nudity = sex messages of our culture. To
effectively
combat these negative messages children need a larger frame of
reference.
They need to see that non-sexual nudity is acceptable and normal for
other
people, not just family. The child that experiences nudity only
at
home and nowhere else will likely have the perception that nudity is
not
"normal.” If non-sexual nudity outside the home is common (not
just
of family, but also of playmates, friends, and others) children are in
a much better position to see all of the body, and nakedness, as
something
normal and acceptable. They will be better insulated against the
negative and impure messages they get about the body from the world,
and
be much better equipped to develop healthy and wholesome attitudes
toward
the body. (Ideally, not only should kids shower after gym class,
they should be nude in co-ed gym and swim classes! But that is
not
likely to happen in today's society.) If you have children,
please,
work to give them a legacy of body acceptance, instead of body
shame.
Family oriented nudist clubs are great places for anyone to become more
comfortable with their bodies, and see that nakedness can be normal,
good,
and wholesome, not bad and indecent.
“Nudist clubs" should not be necessary to promote
a legacy of healthy
body acceptance. But until society comes to a place of acceptance
of public non-sexual nudity around homes and yards, parks, pools,
beaches,
fitness clubs, gyms, physical education classes in schools, sports, on
TV, in the movies, etc., I feel they are necessary and needed.
While
I highly recommend family oriented nudist clubs, I will caution that
some
"nudist clubs" are not "family oriented.” Remember that Satan
seeks
to pervert and/or destroy anything of value. This can be seen in
all other aspects of life, including church, so it should be no
surprise
that it can be seen in social nudism as well. This societies
complete
repression of non-sexual, public, nudity means people will associate it
with sex by default. This situation attracts some people to
nudist
clubs and beaches for the wrong reasons (usually they are disappointed
and don't stay long). There are also some places that market
themselves
as "nudist" clubs that are not, they are sex or swingers clubs in
disguise. Know what a club is before you go, most clubs
associated
with the American Association for Nude Recreation are reputable.
In the beginning of the nudist movement, in the
early 1900's nudism
was about a philosophy of respect for the body as much or more than it
was about simply fun and recreation. As a result smoking and
drinking
were not allowed in almost all clubs, as this went with the idea of
respect
for the body. Some clubs were also vegetarian, discouraged people
from eating sugar or refined foods, had calisthenics every morning, and
generally promoted good health habits. Nudist clubs today bear
little
resemblance to this. Promoting fun and recreation brings money to
the clubs faster then promoting healthy body acceptance and
respect.
Few clubs have any fitness programs or facilities, both smoking and
drinking
are now widely accepted, as is junk food. With drinking often
comes
behavior many parents would not want their children exposed to.
I do not mean to sound discouraging here, actually
considering that
nudity is not much more widely accepted (especially among Christians),
the moral decay of this country, and how much nudity is associated with
pornography and sex, I frankly find it absolutely amazing that moral
decay
within social nudism is not a much greater problem. (That social
nudism hasn't quickly degenerated into the depravity that some
religious
people assume it is, by itself shows the inherent value of it.)
Happily
there are many nudists raising their voices for maintaining higher
standards.
Some clubs have discovered that a "family atmosphere" brings more
quality,
stable, long-term members than a "let live atmosphere" and therefore
better
long-term profitability. This has happily resulted in some clubs
that had developed a "let live" attitude to clean up their act. I
hope that others that had started to lower standards will be following
their lead.
If you do find a nudist club that does not have a
wholesome family atmosphere,
don't lump them all into the same category, most are good. My
words
of caution come from not wanting to give people the false idea that
nudist
clubs are perfect utopias. Only God can guarantee
perfection!
Nudist clubs do in general have a more wholesome and safe atmosphere
than
most comparable clothed beaches, campgrounds, or resorts (although
often
more rustic, most nudist clubs are nice family campgrounds rather then
upscale resorts). I would rather take a family to a nudist club
then
to most clothed campgrounds, motels, etc. This may be, in part,
because
people don't have to apply for membership at most hotels, motels,
campgrounds,
state or national parks etc. and they do at a nudist club. Even
with
the issue of drinking, I would be more comfortable at a nudist resort
with
a bar than at a clothed resort with a bar.
There are many Christians that are members of
nudists clubs, they're
not hard to find as you get to know people, and there are even a couple
of clubs that are owned and operated by Christians. Although
generally
not yet local, there are some Christian nudist fellowship groups (Maybe
you could start a local one?) and a great newsletter "Fig Leaf Forum"
that
can provide fellowship, help, and encouragement in your efforts to
change
your attitude toward the body. It would also be great (especially
for your kids) to not only belong to a local nudist club, but when you
travel go to other nudist clubs instead of staying at regular motels,
hotels,
or RV parks. For those who don't live where it's warm and sunny
all
year, Wintertime indoor nude swims are great too, a good cure for the
Wintertime
blues! They are sponsored bynudist clubs in many cities. If
you travel internationally, Europe is a great place to experience
non-sexual
nudity in many situations. The more exposed you and your children
are to non-sexual nudity in many different places the better insulated
you and they will be against the nudity = sex messages Satan has put
into
our culture. There is far more that is positive about most nudist
clubs, then negative.
There are some great nude beaches where you don't
have to put up with
sand in your swimsuit! But since this country associates nudity
so
strongly with sex, places with open access like beaches, can also
attract
voyeurs and other undesirables. Still I would go to a nude beach
before a textile one; crime is usually less then at textile beaches and
the overall atmosphere better. Europe (where non-sexual nudity is
much more accepted, including on TV, at beaches, public parks, and
pools)
doesn't have much of a problem with undesirable behavior and nudity in
publicly accessible places. Hopefully the U.S. will soon follow
suit
(pardon the pun!). This is something myself and others are
working
toward (educating people on the problems caused by shame and the
inherent
goodness and dignity of the whole human body) so that nudity would be
as
publicly accepted as swimming suits, athletic clothing, and topless men
are now. We know this would not create a perfect society, only
Jesus
Christ can ensure that. But since simple nudity is less sexually
provocative than swimming suits and many other types of clothing, it
should
be a better society than we have now. Examples of societies that
have accepted public, non-sexual nudity, both current and in the past,
show that it can be.
PROTECTING
OUR CHILDREN
A very real concern in today’s society is child
sexual molestation.
Raising children with accepting attitudes about the body can
substantially
help reduce this concern. Many experts who work in the area of
child
molestation are saying that the extreme body shame most people have and
teach their children is the biggest factor in allowing child molesting
to continue to go unreported. A thirty-year Police veteran who
investigates
child molesting says. "Molesters have found that most parents
have
effectively taught their children that their bodies and sex are
shameful
and not to be talked about. Children are taught this to such a
degree
that after being molested they are usually too embarrassed to tell
anyone
about it." He says one of the ways parents demonstrate shame
towards
the body is that when they must talk about "private parts" they do not
use the correct terms for the body part they are referring to.
This
detective teaches that children need to know that their bodies are good
not bad and that the correct words for their body parts are not bad
words,
so they can go to an adult and not be afraid or ashamed to use the
correct
terms for their body parts to describe where someone is touching them
in
a bad way.
One thing common among child abuse victims is the
feeling that what
happened to them was their fault. That it was because there was
something
wrong with them that they were abused. Well if children are
taught
shame about their and others bodies, if when they want to take their
clothes
off and be naked (which all children do) they are punished and told to
put their clothes back on, if they are told its bad to be naked, that
their
genitals are bad, is it any wonder that they feel there is something
wrong
with them? Is it any wonder that this would be compounded even
more
by sexual abuse? Sadly, in this world, even children raised with
body acceptance will not all escape sexual abuse, but it is much more
likely
that if they have a strong foundation of feeling good about all parts
of
their body, that they will not be as emotionally scarred by it, blame
themselves
for what happened, or feel that it happened because there was something
wrong with them.
I absolutely believe that a child being
comfortable with nudity and
talking with their parents positively and openly about Godly sex will
make
it so that they 1. Will be far less likely to be sexually
abused,
and 2. Are less likely to be as traumatized by it and much
more likely to tell about it if they are abused. If a child has
been
taught that the body and sex are good. If his/her parents are
positive
and open about the body and Godly sex, and they know they can ask their
parents questions and talk openly about it, they are much more likely
to
tell their parents if someone tries to touch them sexually, knowing not
only that they will not be in trouble, but that their parents will
believe
them and be on their side. In such a situation children need to
know
that they will be believed and heard. On the other hand, if
parents
are uncomfortable with what their children say or ask about sex, or
even
tell their children that they shouldn't talk about such things, they
are
far less likely to have their children come to them if any one has
tried
to abuse them. Instead of going to mom and dad for help, they
will
be scared to go to mom or dad. Think about it, if every time a
child
wants to play naked or asks about the parts of their body under his/her
underpants, or where babies come from, etc., mom and dad get uptight
and
uncomfortable, and say "you shouldn't do that or talk about such
things",
do you think they are likely to come to mom and dad, without fear, if
someone
touches them sexually?
DO
YOU BELIEVE ALL THINGS ARE PURE?
God had to send stubborn peter a vision (see Acts
10) three times to
show him that all God made is Holy and clean. Peter (like others)
had thought the gospel was only for Jews. All others were
considered
unclean and unworthy. While Peter was considering what this
vision
of unclean food meant three gentiles (non-Jews) came to the house and
God
told him to go with them without doubting. This vision shows that
all things that God made are clean and Holy and it is reaffirmed in
Titus
1:15,16 "To the pure all things are pure, but to those who are
corrupted
and do not believe, nothing is pure. In fact, both their minds
and
consciences are corrupted. They claim to know God, but by their
actions
they deny Him. They are detestable, disobedient and unfit for
doing
anything good." There is nothing beneficial or Godly in thinking
that parts of God's creation are impure or that nakedness is
indecent.
But you can be sure Satan takes great delight when we think like
that!!!
This passage clearly states what God thinks of those who regard part of
his creation as impure. The Bible says that "both their minds and
consciences are corrupted" and that they are "detestable,
disobedient
and unfit for doing anything good." Wow, talk about not pulling
any
punches!
If after reading this, and seeing how God regards
those who call part
of His creation impure, you are still convinced that it's nakedness and
not shame that is the danger, I don't know what else to say, that
could change your mind. I could tell you that when David's wife
Michal
saw him dancing before Jerusalem wearing nothing but a linen ephod
(something
like a vest or bib) and rebuked him, 2nd Samuel 6:12, 14,16; 6:20-23,
it
was she and not David that was cursed! I could also tell you,
that
the people were asking if Saul was also a prophet, after he too (Like
the
other prophets) stripped off his clothes and prophesied! 1st Sam. 19:
23,24.
But, at this point (if nothing else I've said makes since) your mind is
already made up and nothing could change it. I will remind you,
however,
that it is the Lord's business to judge and correct, not yours or
mine!
It is our place to encourage, uplift, support, and strengthen our
brothers
and sisters, not judge them. I will also remind you of the wisdom
of Gamaliel in Acts 5:38,39, referring to Peter and John he told the
high
council "If this program or this work is merely human, it will fall
apart,
but if it is of God, there is nothing you do about it - and you better
not be found fighting against God!"
In Rome there where early Christians that could
only equate meat with
pagan temple sacrifices, in their minds, so they did not believe it was
right to eat such meat. There where also other Christians that
did
not see any problem with eating such meat and could do so with a clear
conscious. (see Rom 14) Paul instructed these people to not
judge, but to accept one another. Today, unfortunately some
people
can only equate nudity to pornography and immorality; they think nudist
clubs are the same (or have the same effect) as pornography or strip
clubs.
They don't see that pornography and strip clubs are intentionally
designed
to excite and arouse people with the best looking models, make up,
special
lighting, the most erotic and sexual poses, atmosphere, etc. They
can not accept that, in comparison, looking at a bunch of average,
imperfect,
plain nude bodies at a camp ground, pool, or beach, doing regular
things,
instead of causing sexual temptation can help people accept the body
and
free them from seeing nudity (by itself) as sexually tempting. If
you are one of those who cannot accept this, I understand and accept
where
you are in your attitude toward the body and your relationship with
God.
I know that you are also God's child, loved and accepted (as you are)
by
Him. I know that you have been conditioned in this culture to
think
nudity is sinful. I also know that we are all at different points
in our relationship with God. And that HE who began the
good
work in us is faithful to complete it. (Philippians 1:6) I
only ask that you try to accept and not judge myself and others that
are
comfortable with nudity, as well.
If I felt that nakedness was simply more
comfortable or enjoyable than
wearing clothes all the time, I would not have written this article,
and
be pursuing or promoting it at all. It would not be worth the
risk
of offending fellow Christians or my family with something they believe
to be sinful and wrong. I am a naturist/nudist and promote it
because
I believe we have been deceived by Satan in our attitudes toward the
human
body and that God never intended us to be caught in this bondage and
ashamed
of any part of His creation. I believe this shame is unhealthy,
destructive,
and dangerous to ourselves, our relationships with others and
God.
I believe that Satan intends to keep us in bondage to shame and I
believe
Gods has called me to help free people from it. I strongly
believe
that mandating that parts of the body always be covered only serves to
make those parts even more interesting and alluring. That taking
away the mystery of nakedness by making it common can help take some of
that sexual attraction or allure away from the body and refocus it onto
the relationship, which is exactly where it should be, thereby
positively
contributing to sexual morality.
We often see immoral sex, violence, and murder on
T.V., but not non-sexual
nakedness. Something is very wrong when these things or more
accepted,
cause less offense, and less protest from Christians then the sight of
the naked bodies God gave us. In writing this I hope to wake some
Christians up to the fact that all of the body is God's gift to us and
we should not treat any of it as something impure or indecent. I
hope to encourage Christians to develop more positive accepting
attitudes
toward the body, by accepting a simple, pure, chaste, and wholesome
nakedness.
Teaching is different from flaunting. While Paul may not have
eaten
meat around certain people, he didn't have a problem writing or
speaking
about meat or other controversial and upsetting, but important issues
like
whether Gentles could be born again, and if they had to follow Jewish
laws
including circumcision. He taught what he knew was right, after
much
study and guidance from God, regardless of whether others agreed with
him
or not.
WHAT'S
NEXT?
Even if what I've written makes sense to you, you
are most likely still
feeling uncomfortable, maybe even threatened by it. That is
understandable,
something you've most likely believed all of your life is being
challenged.
You're being asked to accept as right something you've been taught is
wrong.
I understand, I've been there, but when I got down to it, the idea of
accepting
God's creation made a whole lot more sense, and seemed more beneficial,
then being ashamed of it.
So I ask you, do negative attitudes toward parts
of God's creation or
thinking that nakedness alone is sexually tempting honor God, or does
it
gratify Satan's desire to distort the things of God? The Bible
says
in 1 Thess. 5:21-21 "But test everything. Keep what is
good,
and stay away from everything that is evil. So ask yourself some
questions. Does God want us to have wholesome thoughts?
Does
considering any part of the human body (that God created) to be
indecent
or impure, positively contribute to the development of wholesome
thinking?
1 Cor 10:23 NIV says " 'Everything is permissible' - but not
everything
is beneficial. 'Everything is permissible' - but not everything
is
constructive." According to this, is nakedness permissible?
Could nakedness be beneficial and constructive? Are negative
attitudes
about the body or nudity ever beneficial or constructive? Does
thinking
that nakedness leads to immoral sex or temptation, positively
contribute
to the development of wholesome thinking? Most challenging of
all,
if negative attitudes toward God's creation don't positively contribute
to wholesome and pure thinking, how are you going to change? In
John
10:10 Jesus said, "A thief comes to steal and destroy, but I have come
to give life - life in all its fullness." Think about positive or
negative attitudes toward the body and nudity, what kind of attitudes
destroy,
and what kind would contribute to a full and abundant life?
I don't believe that God wants us to live in
bondage to shame or any
other deception, so I encourage you to actively pursue freedom.
Especially
if you have children, I encourage you to teach them, by word and
example,
healthy accepting attitudes toward the body, rather then body
shame.
It is far easier to prepare a child than to repair an adult. I
also
encourage you to seek out other Christians who see the value of Godly
body
acceptance and living free from shame over God's creation. There
is much value in fellowship with those of like mind. The
resources
listed on this site are a good place to start. You should be able
to find other Christians at the nudist clubs in your area. Even
with
the generally prevailing negative attitude about nudity in most of the
church, opening up discussion about this with other Christians you
already
know may bring pleasantly surprising results. One simple way to
do
this may be to share this article, or direct people to this site and
ask
what they think.
I believe that we can get to know God better and
love Him more by freeing
ourselves from body shame and learning to see the beauty and purity of
the human body, rather than seeing it as indecent. If you also
see
Godly value in nakedness and start to pursue it, be aware, Satan would
prefer to prevent your becoming free in this (or any other) area and
will
likely put circumstances, things, or people, in your path to make you
question
whether body acceptance is Godly! Don't let Satan continue to
deceive
you. Study God's word about this (in light of His character, not
in light of what tradition, or others say about this) and don't let
external
circumstances or past conditioning sway you from what you learn is part
of God's truth. The truth regarding our bodies is that a good God
creates good and pure bodies, that there is no need to be ashamed
of.
He could not do otherwise.
No, social nudity does not guarantee sexual
morality. The only
thing that can absolutely guarantee sexual morality is Jesus Christ and
the complete absence of sin. But I have become absolutely
convinced
that social nudity does help to develop positive attitudes toward, and
a natural acceptance of the body that favors sexual morality. I
have
also become convinced that shame and negative attitudes toward the
human
body are 100% destructive in promoting true, Godly sexual morality, and
that accepting God's creation as pure and good does allow you to get to
know God better. I hope you see the value of rejecting body
shame,
working to develop pure attitudes toward the body, accepting a
wholesome,
God honoring style of nakedness, and that you will join me in living
free
in Christ and free from shame both now and forever!
Copyright © 2001 David Blood
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