| Childhood
I was brought-up
in
a small conservative
Midwestern city during the
years of the great depression. My parents were very strict about
everything; so to this day, it amazes me that in spite their
conservativism,
they were very open-minded about nudity. There was absolutely no
mystery about the human body, between my parents, my sister and
myself.
They were not nudists—nobody ran naked around the house—but, by the
same
token, no one bothered to cover-up when coming from the shower.
Even
during high school the routine was the same: we went up to the dressing
room, my sister and I undressed, took our baths, peed, put on our
jammies
and went to bed—it was completely natural.
Every year, even after
I had a bunch of pubic hair—by age fifteen or so—and my sister had
started
to develop her own, our mother took us to our family doctor just before
school started for a physical. The doctor was 'from the old
school',
a family friend, and my mother would be with us during the
examinations.
The doctor didn't have gowns—how different, and silly, things are
today!
The nurse, who had watched us grow-up, would have us strip and then
weigh
us. The doctor would answer mother's questions, and talk to us about
health,
sex and other concerns we had while he examined us completely.
Once,
when the doctor, took me by the scrotum, and had me cough, I achieved a
large erection. I was embarrassed, but neither Mother nor sister
paid any undue attention, as the doctor explained to my sister all
about
the penis and the male reproductive system. One year Mother
volunteered,
to take off her skirt, stockings and girdle, get up on the table and
let
the doctor explain all about her vulva —showing us where we first
entered
our world. This might shock many people today, but it's an
overwhelmingly
better solution for parents, who might otherwise oppose public sex
education
in the schools or anywhere else. We were a very close family and have
always
had much love and respect for each other.
My Aunt and Uncle
During the war
when I was at Lakeland, FL., a few
times I went over
to Tampa to visit my Aunt, Uncle, and three cousins, and enjoyed a free
meal cooked by their maid, Catherine. They lived in a big house on the
north side. Uncle Joe was red-hot on nudism, as I said, it was a family
joke, but with gas rationing and all, they could practice nudity only
at
home, however, when I was their guest, they were always dressed. I
think
my aunt Maggie put her foot down, I always thought she was a bit
prudish.
A few years passed, out of the military, got
a job in a local bank, in
my small Midwestern home town, still single, for the gal I was engaged
to married a rich farmer. Finally got a car and for my first
vacation,
being early spring, headed south, just to bum around. Ended up in
Tampa, and partied with some guys that I knew that were at
MacDill
AFB. Went to St.Petersburg, to drop-in to say hello to Aunt Maggie and
Uncle Joe, who, because my cousins were grown, had
sold the big house and were living in a high rise condo. Catherine
still
worked for them, a fine person, my cousin's mammy, and a great
cook.
Joe and Maggie welcomed me with open arms, it
had
been five years, I
planed to say, HI, and be on my way, however, they insisted a stay for
a few days, and I had a week left of my vacation, and was catching cold
from the car airconditioner. We had supper, Joe came out in the nude,
Magie
put on a housecoat, I remained dressed. The apartment had a kitchen,
living
room, dining room 2 bedrooms, 2 baths, and being on the top floor of
the
building, a large secluded tiled patio,connected to the living room by
a sliding door. On the patio were several allweater chairs tables, a
large
display of tropical plants, plus an outdoor shower. One prudish
relative
once said that Joe bought the place, just so he could sunbathe in the
nude!
The next morning, we had breakfast, Joe in
the nude, Maggie in a
nightgown,
myself dressed, Catherine came in to work and had a cup of coffee with
us, I ralized Joe's nudity was the norm. Joe got got dressed and
left for work. Maggie came out beautifuly dressed, as she was
leaving
for a mid-morning club meeting. "You are catching cold, why don't you
lay
on ths chaise and get some sun this morning." Catherine was ironing in
the kitchen. I put on a pair of shorts and went out on the patio.
Catherine
saw me out of the kitchen window, I was about to lay on chaise, when
Catherine
came out with some suntan lotion. "you needs this, you ai'nt used to
this
sun. Here, I'll put some on your back. Which she did. "you knows
you need all the sun you can git. Mr. Joe goes out here neked all the
time."
I told her I gathered that. She finished my back. "Mr John,
please take off dem shorts so I'ze can put some oil on your
bottom."
So I did. " Don't be ashamed, I'ze seen cocks before and you is a good
looking young man". Thank you Catherine.
I was almost
asleep
when Maggie came home from her meeting, and walked out on the
patio"
Oops! I forgot what you were out here!" Catherine from inside, "
I forgot to tell you that Mr. John is buck naked outside. ' Told aunt
Maggie
not to worry about my modesty, therefore she sat in the shade. I told
her
about my upbringing and that nudity wasn't that a big deal. She
told
me to get out of the sun, sit in a chair next to her and visit.
She
saw how at ease that I was in the nude. She asked me if I would like to
go to Como Sunday." Your Cousin and her family will be there. I
replied,
"Sure, Are you going, too?"
" Of course,why did you ask?"
" Aunt Maggie, you are the opposite from Joe,
you love nice clothes,
you are active in women's organizations, you're a perfect lady and I
can't
feature you as a nudist".
" You think that I'm a prude"
" I didn't say that"
" But you thought that. John, there is a time
and place for everything
I have to stay out of the sun, I love to swim and go in the buff at
Como,
and have a host of friends there. But just occasionally do I go nude
here."
" I'll ask Catherine to bring us some ice tea
and sandwiches, I have
to go to the bathroom,
I'll be right back. Meantime, why don't you take a shower, there,
and cool off"
Catherine brought out a tray and put it on
the patio table. The sliding
door opened, and my aunt Maggie stepped-out stark naked!
A very nice body for a 63 year old woman. "
Mrs.Maggie you ain't a
stitch on!" Yes Catherine, I know, I just want my nephew to know that
I'm
not a prude!"
Summertime
One summer my parents
rented a cottage at a
nearby
lake. Father, however,
was having financial problems, like everyone else in those days,
therefore
he had to drive into the city to his office everyday, with his friend
Tom
Snodgrass, who also rented a cottage. So that left Tom's wife, Mae, ( a
bit younger than my mother) and their 2 children Billy and Betty 10 and
8., my mother my sister, June ,13, and myself almost 16. It was a hot
summer,
back in the late 30's, and we all were in the lake most of the time. Of
course everyone wore suits, although June and I skinny-dipped at night
quite often.
I think then I knew I wanted to be a nudist someday. One
day,
I came in from swimming, stripped off my suit, and walked nude into the
kitchen, OOP's there was my mother and Mrs.Snodgrass having
coffee!
Mrs. Snodgrass told me not to be embarrassed for she was a former
nurse,
I grabbed a towel, but both ladies said that there was no need to cover
up. They asked me to sit down and visit, after I overcame my
shock,
my mother said that she and Mae were talking about nudity and children.
Mother said she told Mae that there was no shame in our family, "look,
here comes John, he'll take off his suit and come in, you'll see!" What
a dirty trick! Mae said that she wished that had brought up their
youngsters the same way, and she wished that her children, could see
June
and I nude, since they approaching puberty.
Mother said that
could
be easily arraigned. Since June was down at the pier with Billy and
Betty,
she would make a picnic lunch, we would put on our suits and join them,
Mae went to her cottage to change and to bring some picnic items.
At about 4 o'clock, both ladies said it's shower time.( Mother, Mae and
June orchestrated this) . We all went up to our cottage, mother had
gone
ahead. Mae announced that you children will take showers
together,"
to save water". We got to the secluded back porch, and Mother
came
out nude. "No wet suits in the house". June and I were naked
immediately,
and soon Billy and Betty. Betty asked" how about you, Mom?"
Mother
said, "Mae, isn't it about time that your kids saw you in your birthday
suit, and you in the buff is nothing to John "With that off came Mae's
suit, and allot of prudish notions of modesty. We did that several
times,
I think with Tom's approval, although he never said a word.
Thanks to John for
letting us
share from his journey.
2001
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